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How to you tell someone you like her without losing her friendship?

For lesbians and bisexual women, you like her and want to tell her, but you're afraid if you do, you'll lose her friendship. If you re in college, you might be too young to go to bars to meet other LGBT people.

We lesbians might as well have honorary doctorates in the art of With that, I proudly present to you Zara's simple five-step guide to going down on women. Men, hear me when I say this: Step one is the key to not only being better at oral sex, but the key to a less We girls have been trained by society to believe our vaginas are ugly, vile places and men don't like to go down on such dirty, salacious parts of the girl body. Vaginas are the reasons buildings are built and the world f*cking rotates. Before you dare to go down, make sure you make us feel super sexy. It's So before it's gotten even close to oral time, when it's still in the make-out phase of the hookup, take breaks and say things like “You're so f*cking hot.” “You're so gorgeous.” “I love your sexy body.”When I'm told VERBALLY that you desperately want to f*ck me, I can relax. Boys don't mind if a girl just goes straight in for the blow-jay (Note: I used to sleep with your kind). Otherwise the experience just isn't as pleasant, right? Also, at this stage, feel free to throw in the occasional moans and “I want you so bad.”However, don't do it The trick to going down on a girl (and again, to girl world, in general) is to tease her. If you're afraid to look at a woman's vagina, dead on, you have no business being down there. Don't go at it like it's a slice of teeming hot pizza you would pick up at the bar at 4 am. You made your last girl have earth-shattering, mind-blowing orgasms, so this one should be no problem.

We are made to believe boys just want tits and lips (mouth lips). Also, it makes us hot to make a girl feel hot, right? And girls need to feel relaxed in order to enjoy oral SEX. It doesn't matter if the entire transaction lasts all of five minutes. You don't want to venture down under, until she's dripping wet and begging for it. Then before you even get to her clit, kiss her inner thighs and pelvic area.

Since then we’ve seen one another a few times and she’s always been really chatty. I ran it by Kim when we were talking about crushes, not really thinking anything of it, but Kim got super jealous and told me she’d prefer if I didn’t ask her old crush out.

I told her I wasn’t making any firm moves but she didn’t have the right to tell me who to date.

Kim was pretty bummed about it since she’d gotten really into this girl, but she recently started getting out there again and she has a new crush.

If you don't know me, let me give you a brief introduction: My name is Zara Barrie, and I'm a full-blast, lady-loving lesbian. It's recently come to my attention that some of you may be a little intimidated about going down on a woman…or just not know what the f*ck you're doing. The first time I ever went down on a girl (sophomore year of high school, I think? I mean, the vagina is like this mystical holy grail that unlocks the secrets to the ever-expansive universe.

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It's me, Zara, your trusted lesbian Internet wingwoman.

“Because she’s butch.”My friend sat back in her chair.

“But, I thought that meant she would make the first move.”I still claim my laugh was of the gentle, accepting variety.“You sound like Ursula the Sea-witch,” she said. ”My friend isn’t some recently-out nineteen-year-old. She’s had her share of long term relationships; she’s been to the Michigan Women’s Festival, for Christ sake.

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